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Strawberry Letter: Young Lady Finding Herself

Hello Morning Crew,

I am a 20-year-old woman who currently found herself beating herself up mentally. I moved back to New York and started working at a store in SoHo. A co-worker and I have had chemistry but never took it any further than flirting at work. Until April he started making more of an effort by calling me, walking to the train and home, and asking me how my day went. The dynamic between us two changed but with all this he was getting ready to leave for the Army in less than a month. He wanted me to be his “hold it down chick” and I was gladly to be that for him. Last month I went to Miami for my birthday for four days. My friends threw me a party and an old fling came by and one thing led to another. I kind of threw it off like it didn’t happen because I no longer cared for him. On Wednesday at work it was his last day and one of our last days. Everything was fine until we were on the train going home, he felt the need to ask me “if got what I needed sexually in Miami?” I could not lie and said “yes”. He kissed me and said it’s fine and went home. He ignored me for two days and Saturday I was supposed to see him before he left and I never did. I called him and he said he still liked me but that we should just forget about it and he regrets showing me the real person he was. Also, I asked if we do so much to write and he said I can’t anymore. I’ve been completely upset with myself because I feel like I couldn’t hold back on my wants and lost a good guy. People have said to write him or others say move on. I just feel the need to ask someone who knows a bit more in this area. Should I write to him once I get an address or should I move on.

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