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Strawberry Letter: Such A Mess I Made

Dear Steve and Shirley,

I really need your advice. I am a married mother of 2 (an 18-year-old boy and a 25-year-old pregnant daughter who lives in another state with her soon to be baby’s daddy parents which is a letter in itself). Well morning crew I am at a point in my life where I am ready to get my life together – which is why I am writing you for advice. Even though I have been with my husband for 30 years and seem happy on the outside. Everything isn’t always how it seems. He hasn’t touched me and made me feel like a woman in the past 5 years. The reason why I have no idea!

But after a year of not making love I couldn’t take it any more and I started reaching out to men on the AARP website and Facebook. I mean I am a good-looking woman! I NEED LOVING! Over the past year I have lost 100 lbs from Weight Watchers and exercise and I am doing a good job maintaining it if I say so myself. Now to make a long story short I have 2 lovers (that I have met on the social network) and a husband that WON’T touch me! 1 of my lovers is a high school sweetheart that we got in touch over Facebook and old flames started to rekindle.

My high school sweetheart is currently separated from his wife but they still remain in the same household for the sake of their children. My high school sweetheart brought back feelings in me that I forgot ever existed. When I am with him I feel like I am 17 again. I know I should stop this rendezvous I am married he is married (I really don’t believe that him and his wife only live together for their kids sake). This just is not right but it feels so good. He has me taking business trips every other month because he lives out-of-state. It has come to the point that he is my addiction and I am in need of  rehab. This relationship is not going to benefit anyone but it needs to stop but it feels so good.HELP!

Now lover number 2 is someone I met on the other website. He basically is an in between and it is nothing but a physical thing! His loving is OK I think I am only with him for the compliments and the cuddling. The only problem is he is very possessive and calls me 3 times a day sometimes he parks outside my house, side streets , etc. On numerous occasions he has follows me to work. He tells me things like “If you need me I will find you,” “You complete me” “Promise me you will never leave me.” I am tired of him but I yearn for the attention.

I have tried to talk to my husband but he is too busy working “Supporting my Lavish Living” as he would say. I would give up all of this for his attention and time which I just can’t seem to get. I don’t want a divorce. I still love my husband. I said till death do us part. I just need to clean up what I messed up and I have no idea where to begin?

Please help

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