Strawberry Letter: I Am Having an Affair and I Am Getting too Attached
Dear Steve and Shirley,
I’ve been married for 2 years and I just started talking to this guy for a few weeks now. I met him 8 years ago but nothing ever happened and I never saw him again until recently. He is married as well with children. We text each other almost everyday and we see each other 2-3 times a week. We even went out on a date and everything is nice with him. He has also invited me to his house. Yes his house where he lives with his wife and children. I’ve gone there a few times to see him since he asked me to.I’ve been unhappy with my husband before this guy came along. My husband is 28 I’m 32 and the guy is 34. My husband doesn’t like to do anything. He does work but when he’s not working he stays in the house smokes weed plays video games or just watches tv. I’ve asked him and also told him on multiple occasions to please let us go out and do something anything but still no change. Now the problem is I’m starting to like him. He’s doing everything that my husband doesn’t do. When he touches me it sends chills thru my body. He’ll text me just to see how my day is and when my son was sick he texted just to see how he was doing. I’m not trying to leave my husband an he’s not leaving his wife but its hard for me to stop thinking about him while I’m with my husband. I also told him that I like him alot and at first he didn’t want to talk about it and from his reaction it made me feel some sort of way so I started to give him the cold shoulder and he didn’t like it. He told me to stop. I continued to act as if I didn’t care but then he grabbed me and started kissing me and then he whispered in my ear that he likes me too. I don’t know what to do. Should I leave him alone and be miserable with my husband or should I continue but keep my feelings out of the equation.
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