Strawberry Letter: I Really Messed Up

Dear Steve and Shirley,

I’ve been married almost 2 years to my beautiful wife. About 6 or 7 months ago I made the biggest mistake ever. My wife and I got into a real heated argument and I went out got drunk and cheated on my wife. It was a one night stand thing and I never saw her again but that night. Now me and my wife went to Wal-Mart and I guess the girl I cheated with saw us and later on that night she sent an email to my wife’s email. I had to tell her Steve and Shirley. It was eating me up every time I look at my wife I thought about crying cause I knew I messed up.

Now me and my wife have 5 kids and my wife hates me for hurting her. I have the most beautiful wife and best supporter ever, my wife that is. She’s told me she wants a divorce and wants me to feel her pain which I agree. I tried apologizing every day to my wife I would do anything to heal her heart. I am a wreck and she’s hurting more than anything. I wanna kill myself for what I did to my wife. Just her pain alone is a knife through my heart til the day of my wife finding out. We had that great marriage everyone looks for now I’m scared she’s gonna hurt me so I can feel her pain which is not ok but I’ll take it just to get my wife back.

Steve, I need your help on getting my wife and marriage back to great please. I’m one of those dumb dudes that had everything a man wish he had — great family and awesome wife and I really messed up big time. I need your help. I’m begging you guys.

Thank You

Listen to Shirley and Steve respond to this letter below:


Strawberry Letter: Married To A Hussy [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: Lost In Paradise [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: Cheating In The Next Room [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: Overprotective Son [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: How Do I Help Without Judging? [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: Is Our Relationship Over [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: My Father Is A Pimp [AUDIO]

Strawberry Letter: Married and Lonely [AUDIO]