Strawberry Letter 23: Foolish
Steve I need help. I’ve been married for almost two years and I want out. My husband is a mamas boy and a coward. His mother dislikes me and mistreats my children from a previous relationship. When I encourage him to talk to her he gets mad because he thinks I want him to be disrespectful or something. I just want him to tell her that as his mother she should at least respect his feelings and the decisions that he has made and not be rude to me and my daughters.
He also has a bad habit of making decisions without me, for instance he purchased our home after we both agreed that we should get an apartment and save and work on our marriage. My name is not on the lease and guess what he said “they messed up the paperwork” and my question which still hasn’t been answered is “well why the hell did you sign it” and after a year he still hasn’t answered.
I feel bad because it’s like I’m in a marriage where I have no voice and no opinion. He is running me over but he keeps saying he loves me and is doing it for us but something just doesn’t feel right.