Subject: I have a side dude
Hey Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with this guy for 9 years, since I was 17 years old. He is 6 years older than me. In the beginning, we argued a lot. I’m not happy and haven’t been in a while. My man works, cooks, treats me well, pay bills, etc. We recently got engaged and had our first child this year, but I’m not so sure I want to be with him forever, because our sex life is off and on… we can go weeks without having sex. Now the plot really thickens, because for the past 4 years, I’ve been having an affair. Me and my side guy meet up at our homes or at a hotel. The side guy has two kids and a baby mama that he claims not to be with, but they live together at his mom’s house. The side guy and I have great sex and he is very affectionate. We have great conversations, but he doesn’t have his finances in order. What should I do? I’m torn between the two guys and I’m not even sure if I deserve to be in a relationship at all. Please help.
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