Subject: No stimulation leads to frustration
Hello Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 15 years and we have 2 children. My handsome husband is a good man and he treats me very good. My problem is that for the past 7 years, he has had issues with sexual arousal. The blue pills worked at first, but then they stopped working. He has been seeing a specialist and we’ve changed our diet. I’m being extremely patient but sex once or twice a year is very frustrating. He doesn’t like to discuss it and I think he gets embarrassed and he may feel as if he’s less than a man because of this problem. I told him that I need sexual stimulation, but he won’t even consider pleasing me in other ways. I have been faithful to him… I have been pleasuring myself a lot lately. I’m only 48 years old and I am not ready to stop having sex. I’m a beautiful professional woman and men flirt with me all the time. Other than the sexual part of our lives, my husband and I are good together. But now I feel like he’s being selfish and I get irritated with him. Can you give me some words of wisdom, please?
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