Subject: Not Sure What To Do
I’m a 47-year-old successful black woman, mother, etc. I married the same man twice and thinking about marrying in the third time. He is a good man, a great father and a wonderful provider. We divorced after three years the first time because of an affair I forgave him and we remarried after three years. Things were going well after couple of years he started up again another affair. I began my plan to leave again I bought another house and moved on. He married the affair everyone knows you never marry the affair.
When she moved in the house we purchased for our family she began remodeling houses spending thousands of her own money I assume trying to remove any remembrance of his family. I believe he married her out of monetary obligation and never thinking have another chance with me. Eventually he realized the error of his ways and now wants his family back. The new wife is having a fit she tried to alienate him from his children, try to have me put in jail for calling your house when her daughter was missing didn’t put the children in their wedding etc. Etc. He has now filed for divorce. I was the biggest problem in their marriage yet I never interfered. I probably should have taken back what the devil stole from me. Yet he wouldn’t tell me that 80% of their conversations were about me when I left he was devastated and so was I.
I can’t deny that I have always loved him with all my heart. I want my family to be together yet there are so many issues to resolve. Selling one of the houses changing the children’s schools, communication I am sure that all of this can work out when both parties are determined to get another chance at forever. I remember something Steve said when a man is with another woman it means nothing if he doesn’t love her. I didn’t know that back then I had let that sink in and I know that this man has always loved me. When I left he was devastated and so was I. I guess I really don’t have a question just would like your opinion
Signed love that strong patience.
Listen to Steve and Shirley strawberry’s response BELOW
