Subject: Cheating And Deceiving Women
Dear Steven and Shirley
I’ve been married for six years now. I recently found out that my husband who is of African descent had been lying to me all this time about his ex and children to being out of the country. We moved into a new home and he also moved his ex and two children into a new home. He signed his name with her on the house and she also still carries his last name. He finally admitted to what was going on after all these years and said he confessed because of reading a book, but I know it was because of his conscience getting the best of him. He tells me to leave the past alone and deal with our future I told him that his past is also part of our present and future he had never even turned his passed away. He said he did it because this is his way of taking care of his child but like I told him you could take care of your child without having to take care of the woman how about child support and visitation rights. I know he is still seeing her because she doesn’t have a man and I know he will not approve of the man being with her because he’s paying the mortgage and other bills. He has deceived me and lied and committed adultery. I’m still here because this is my first marriage and I thought my last and I’m trying to work it out he’s very kind and takes care of home but in his mind he feels he is doing nothing wrong. We do not have any children together but I have a 12 and 14-year-old at home. I also asked does this woman know we are married and he says yes. I asked if she working he also says yes I don’t believe him because she is from Bosnia very white and not sure if she speaks English. I also asked when will I need his children and he ignored the question however it doesn’t matter to me if I never meet them. I’m trying to salvage this marriage but I don’t know how long I can deal with the deceit and lies. What is your advice? I know I have to leave what other alternatives do I have?
Thanks God bless
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