Married and thinking of cheating YOLO.
Dear Shirley and Steve,
I am a 34 year old mother of 4 and have been for married 10 years. My marriage seems to have become a business relationship as I believe if it were not for the children we would have no incentive to continue our relationship. We don’t date, spend time together eat together or indulge in any stimulating adult conversation outside of discussing the needs of our children. I have been unhappy with this situation and have tolerated it because he is an excellent provider and I can not provide for them financially without his help, so I have remained faithful and unfulfilled. After the birth of my last child I almost died. I suffered a heart attack and had to have emergency open heart surgery. I have since recovered and have a new found appreciation for life (time).Since then nothing has changed in my marriage and I am in need of a companion both emotionally and physically. I have met someone who can provide me with that but nothing more. I have had the increasing desire to explore a sexual relationship with this person and I am conflicted. If my husband were to find out about my infidelity I am sure it will end an already struggling relationship that I depend on for financially stability. Even though my marriage is unhappy my children are happy and well taken care of. I do not want that to change. Is it possible to have the best of both worlds with two different men? YOLO
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