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Subject: Fight For My Man Or Let It Go

Dear Steve and Shirley,

My husband and I have known each other since we were 7 & 11 years old. Throughout the years we’ve had an on and off relationships . It didn’t matter if we where exclusive or not. We’ve always found a way to be together. We finally got married in 2000. We separated for years until we found ourselves back to one another, now we’ve been together for the past 2 years. My problem is when we’ve got back together and we clearly stated to one another that there’s a low tolerance for cheating. My dumb but decided to get involved with phone sex with a man who I have never met in person that I only dealt with through work that literally lives states and states away. Not only was I having conversation with this total stranger, but I also had conversation with my ex-boyfriend that I left for my husband. Well my light shine bright now it’s been about 6 months since this happen to my husband and my decide to leave me and the kids about a month ago. He refuses to give me another chance, and I just want my marriage to work like it should have from the beginning. Every time I ask him to come home he just question me what I am coming home too. What will be the difference, etc. I thought things where going well since that happen. We went on a cruise this past summer for our 6th year anniversary. His leaving just smacked me in the face. Sometimes I feel like he will come back home especially when he comes and stay for nights at a time in spurs. I really and truly love my husband. I keep telling him just because I did what I did doesn’t mean I don’t love him any less. I really need this man in my life, not only for me but for my daughter as well. I’ve mentally let go and let GOD, but I’m truly scared that I have lost this man for good.

What should I do? Should I give up hope or should I keep fighting?  Signed should have known better to not let others in

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