Strawberry Letter: B-WORD
Hello Morning show,
I am 25 my boyfriend is 24 I have never dated anyone younger than me before, and now I see why! When I first met this boy he was perfect, He didn’t act his age at all. He was so respectful, He was close to his family, he took me anywhere I wanted to go, gave me anything I wanted. Now this was a big change from my last relationship (i was in a physically abusive relationship for 3 years) My new man never raised his hand to me, never even raised his voice until one day, We had been talking for about 6 months he got mad at me for something and called me a B-word! All i could do was say ‘excuse me’? he said B-word u heard me! but since then it has gotten Worst! Now he calls me all kinda names, B-words, H-words, P-words, any negative derogatory word u can think of! and on top of that when he gets mad he breaks my things! t.v.’s radios, tables, puts holes in the walls etc..! I don’t know what to do. I love this man, & know he loves me too, but am I suppose to keep putting up with this? I don’t want to break up with him just because of some words, and the things he breaks he replaces but I keep telling him that’s not the point. Then when he gets mad he also calls me stupid for putting up with his mouth. He says if I was a real woman I wouldn’t allow him to talk to me like that. but then he says he doesn’t mean any of it, he breaks my things, & uses his words to hurt me, because he can’t use his hands to hurt me. What do you think i should do?? oh yea even the abusive man i was with for 3 years never called me out my name…he would knock me upside my head from time to time, but he never cussed at me!
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