Strawberry Letter: Fulfilling My Husbands’ Fantasy
Dear Shirley & Steve,
My husband & I have been happily married for 10 years. I consider our sex life to be average. During our marriage, he has wanted to try a threesome, couples orgy, etc. I told him that I wasn’t interested in any of the above. I’ve given him “permission” to have sex with another woman- as long as he lets me know and I’m there to witness it. He has declined that offer.
He recently told me that his fantasy is to watch me have sex with another man. I have told him time and time again that I am not interested in having sex with anyone other than him. His response is that its just sex- nothing more, nothing less. During sex, he asks me if I’m “ready” and in the heat of the moment, I respond “yes.”
He has placed my pictures and ads online for “casual encounters” and has gotten tremendous responses. I want to fulfill his fantasy and make him happy, but, I really feel uncomfortable doing this.
Is it time for me to give in and take our relationship to the next level?