Subject: Should I trust my wife?
Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my wife for over 8 years and we’ve been married for 3 years. My wife is the love of life, the apple of my eye and I wouldn’t be where I am without her. I have some jealous tendencies, but my wife has never given me reason not to trust her… until recently. Last week, the alarm on her phone was going off and she had fallen asleep in the other room and didn’t hear it. When I went to turn the alarm off, there was a text from a “male co-worker” on the lock screen asking, “What are you up to tonight?” So, I opened it and began to read through the text thread. 5 or 6 messages up, he made a reference to oral sex. I immediately woke my wife up, before I went into meltdown. She said she ignored the message and didn’t entertain it, since they talk like she’s one of the boys. I told her that she needs to shut it down immediately! She told me that she doesn’t have any friends to talk to because her female friends are all really flaky. I told her no man would ever say something like that if he didn’t have sexual intention. I know I shouldn’t have gone through her phone, but I’m at the point of going to talk to this male co-worker man to man. Am I over reacting? Should I be concerned or just trust what my wife says? Please help me!
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