Strawberry Letter: I Need To Be Satisfied…

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 24 yr old woman engaged to a 34 year old amazing man. He makes me extremely happy in almost every way, except sexually. Lately I have been reminiscing on past sex I’ve had with men before I met my fiancé. I have cheated on almost every guy I have ever dated, but I have never cheated on my fiancé. I have told my fiancé that I’m not satisfied with our boring sex life and he always says that we have a lifetime to do it all. I admit that he has tried some new stuff and honestly, it was so awkward. The passion is not there 80% of the time. When I try to show him what I like, he gets upset. I think it hurts his feelings to know he doesn’t satisfy me sexually most of the time. The worst part of all this is that recently, I tried to schedule a booty call with an old fling. The old fling tried to convince me that I needed one last rendezvous before I got married. I considered having sex with him and now I feel terrible. I worry that I eventually will cheat. My fiancé has always said sex is not important to him, but it is to me. Maybe I am just a nymphomaniac, but I miss the variety, spontaneity, kinkiness, passion and lustful sex of my old life.

I used to “fake the funk” in bed, but now I don’t anymore.

I do not want to cheat and I do not want to leave my fiancé.  What do you suggest I do? Do you believe that “once a cheater always a cheater?” Please help.

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