Subject: I Am An Over Compulsive Luster
Dear Shirley and Steve,
I am a 23-year-old young lady with a problem. I am coming to the conclusion that I am an over compulsive luster. I’m single with no children, 2 part-time jobs and I go to school full-time. So as far as a relationship is concerned, I just simply don’t have the time. I realized I had a problem when my guy friend called in because I finally had some free time and I got excited went to Wally and bought a 36 pack of gold. I’m a very friendly person, so I can be cordial with just about anybody. With as much as I do, I will admit that I’m a stoner. So my friendships usually start out as kicking it strong, without being intimate or even considering it. But after a few months of being the friend I eventually let my “lustful” ways interfere.
I do KNOW that I am a queen. But my promiscuity states otherwise. And with me being the over analytical person that I am, I worry about myself.
Am I doing this because of insecurities? Do I really love myself? Could this be an after effect of not having a father figure? Is there something deeper?
I’ve been battling these demons for sometime now. But have yet to find the root of the problem, or maybe I’m over analyzing.
My question to you is, how do I help myself to cease my “lustful” ways?
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