Subject: Secrets I Keep
Dear Shirley and Steve,
I’ve been keeping a secret from my man and I need you advice. I joined a local swingers club a little over two years ago and my sexual appetite desires being with more than just one man. I’ve been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. I really want to tell him about my other life but I don’t know how. I have hinted around at the idea of us going to the parties as a couple and the idea of us becoming swingers, and for play he will say yes but on the night of the party he doesnt want to go. So I have to make up a story about where I’m going for the evening. I’ve tried to stop going but I simply can’t. I ‘m stuck between my fantasy and the real world I’m not sure if I want to stop, if I need to stop. I like the swingers lifestyle it’s very addictive and very satisfying I can be who I want when I want without any ridicule or negative feedback its a world of complete bliss and fulfillment however I do enjoy my man in bed we are a very passionate couple, it’s just that I need more than what he is giving me. I have a very insatiable appetite and I don’t believe only one man can satisfy me at this time in my life. I do appreciate the idea of being with just one man and I do care about his feelings but I havent been completely honest about my “other” sex life. Shirley, should I be honest with him or just leave things the way they are? Even if you do not read this on the air can you please give me some advice via email? Thanks Shirley! Thanks Steve!
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