Subject: He’s My Soul Mate But I’m Not His
Dear Steve and Shirley,
I am a 32-year-old woman and I’m in love with a now married man. It all started when we meet at a former job. Our chemistry was crazy! We fell for each other hard. Our then co-workers, could even sense the deep connection we shared. However,we never really defined our relationship so I took it as we were just friends with benefits. But it felt like so much more, we were both parents that decided to return to school to pursue our degrees and we would help each other with our assignments we took trips together etc…just as if we were together. I had to end the friendship/relationship when he moved an ex girlfriend in with him after she admitted that she had lied to him about her son being his for 8 years. I couldn’t believe he would accept that, it was too hurtful to watch him be with another. That relationship ended and now he’s married to a girl that’s younger than him. They have a child and seems happy together. I want to put these feelings behind me and move on but I can’t seem to find the love and passion that we shared with anyone else. I’ve been in two unsuccessful relationships since and it’s been 5 years since we split but whenever I see him,I still get nervous and everything comes rushing back to me.
Please Help!
So I can move on!!!!!
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