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Strawberry Letter: Don’t Know What It Going On With Me

Dear Shirley and Steve,

Hi! I’m a 30 yr old female that has been in a relationship with a man for about a year and a half. I’ve never been able to leave any of my stuff at his house. I did just to see what would happen once and it disappeared. On two occasions a woman has knocked on his bedroom window and I’ve also been confronted in public by the same woman.

I leave him and stop contact with him for a week or two at a time, but he always manages to get me back. I’ve met his whole entire family, he cooks for me, massages me, does everything romantic possible. But he is cheating and I don’t trust him, but I can’t leave him. It’s nearly impossible. We know he’s cheating there is too much smoke for there to be no fire, but what I’m concerned with is me and why I can’t leave him.

I’m a very attractive woman and have never had a problem with men being attracted to me. But I know he will likely never stop. And he’s so damn good. I’m not a spyer or gonna come to his house to look I probably should, but I have no time for nonsense. Anyways I’m done babbling. I listen to you guys on the way to work every morning and y’all have been my inspiration through many other life challenges. Now I just need to know how to get my confidence back to leave his ass.

Thank you

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