Strawberry Letter: Bisexual Love Triangle
Hello Steve and the rest of the fam!!
I have a situation that has been going on for about a year and I need some help :-/ I’m a 23 year old single mother working a part time job to make ends meet. I meet a female about a year and a half ago and we had an instant connection, yes I’m bisexual. We dated for a few months but she was so stuck in her ways that it ended shortly after.
While we were together she felt it was ok for her to go out every weekend and do whatever she wanted to do and still have me at home. Our situation was hard because the father of my child is her cousin. She ended it with me with no warning or explanation but said that had nothing to do with it. Thru her relationships after me she still would come by to see my daughter and occasionally spend the night with us.
It bothers me because now I wonder if she was doing this while we were together and it makes me feel some type of way knowing she is leaving to go home to another woman. When she comes over she takes her shoes off halfway undresses and gets in my bed to cuddle…..she says that when she is with me it feels so right she still loves me and that this is where she is comfortable at but now she moving miles and miles away with her new girlfriend and I feel like now I’m left hanging.
I can’t get over her because we never had closure. To this day I still don’t know why she left me or why she doesn’t want to be with me so what do I do? Do I end all ties with her and let it go or should I continue to have her when I can? Its like my heart keeps getting broken over and over and I know its my decision but I need guidance….please help me!!
Signing off A lost soul with a broken heart 🙁