I recently got married to what I call the man of my dreams in March. Steve your book made that happen for me!! I thought I followed all the rules. But for some reason he has not told his family and when they ask him he always avoids the question. Click here to read the rest of today's <strong>Strawberry Letter</strong>. <!--more-->

Today's <strong>Strawberry Letter</strong> deals with age differences in a relationship. Age differences are one thing, but it's a whole other matter when the court system gets involved. Read the entire letter here. <!--more--> Shirley and Steve, I am caught in the middle of a bad situation. To give a lil background I will start off by saying I'm young and i am in a relationship with a 36 year old man! We are 19 years apart and share the same birthday. About five months ago he was incarcerated with pending charges of lewd/lacivious battery{ having sex wit a minor} and that minor would happen to be me. He also has a charge of contributing to a deliquent and impregnating. Unfortunately i was forced to have an abortion. In approximately 5 days Iwilll stand before a judge and testify. as a witness or a victim I dont know. I really want to testify for him not against. The fact that my parents will be present is really shaking me up. Please, please, please help me. should i stick by him or do as my mother would want me to do.