Through 26 years of rumors, speculations and tabloid scandals Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham’s non-traditional relationship has stood the test of time. Winfrey and Graham, CEO and founder of S. Graham & Associates, began dating in 1986 after ending her then relationship with Reginald Chevalier. In spite of the gossip and rumors of separation, Oprah […]

Dear other woman, Stop being trifling. Signed, Womanhood (well, minus all polygamists) This Valentine’s Day some woman will again feel like “shyt people feel on…

Are you a man or woman who has difficulty chatting up the opposite sex? A new service called “The Professional Wingman” may be for you. The Wall Street Journal reports that while Internet dating sites are attracting fewer visitors these days, services like “The Professional Wingman” are gaining traction. For a starting fee of $130, […]

Last-minute Christmas shopping can leave you feeling overwhelmed as you try to please everybody but yourself. But Shanda Says that even the smallest moment of selfishness can get you through the holiday season. Take some time out for yourself! More from Shanda: Unhappy In Your Relationship? You Deserve Better! How Is Your Sex Life? When […]

So many women are unhappy in their relationships, we give so much of yourselves and try to make our significant other happy, but yet we are unfulfilled. Are you with the person you deserve? We stay in relationships for various factors, be it the kids, money or the I’ve invested so much of myself, I […]

Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher’s divorce has been a surprise to some, but an inevitable outcome to others. When the two married 6 years ago, all anybody could talk about was their 16-year age difference, but after chronicling their coupledom on Twitter for all their fans to see with cutesy messages back and forth, we […]

When you notice that a friend suddenly won’t answer your text messages, tweets, texts or emails, this can be an unnerving and disturbing situation. According to About.com, the first sign that something could be ‘wrong’ with a friendship is often when you just don’t hear from your friend. Some people are not good at initiating […]

We could learn a lot about what we like and we don’t like in a significant other from the cast of “Living Single.” There’s the innocent couple: Overton and Sinclair, then the steamy secret lovers: Maxine and Kyle, the friends with benefits: Khadija and Scooter and the hopeless romancer: Regine, who’s looking for love in […]

Just in time for Black Marriage Day tomorrow, Lamar and Ronnie Tyler the couple behind “Happily Ever After”and “You Saved Me” present their new film “Men Ain’t Boys.” The Tyler’s traveled across the country to interview 45 men and multiple experts about the true definition of manhood in the Black community. A resounding theme in […]

Is your casual booty call starting to feel like the beginning stages of an actual relationship?  Here are 20 signs to look out for: 1. They text you before 8 p.m. 2. They ask how your presentation/test/interview/trial went. 3. They call you. On the phone. 4. You allow yourself to be photographed with them. 5. […]

Nothing is more intoxicating than dating a toxic guy. You know – the ones you would never introduce to your family for fear of being scorned; the guy who doesn’t come to the door to get you for your date, but instead lays on the horn of his sports car with adult-labeled ‘noise music’ blaring. […]

Let’s face it- It’s easier to control your weight when you’re single and only planning meals for one. You eat on your own schedule and you’d rather stay in and throw together a salad than go to that new steak house down the street ALONE. While dating has its perks, it also has its pounds. […]