Strawberry Letter 23: I Want To Have Fun
Dear Shirley and Steve,
I am a 19 year old female with a 29 year old man. We’ve been together for 7 months and we just got an apartment together. His background is that he’s been divorced and has 3 younger kids. On the other hand before I met him I was stripping at a club.
He met me there and we started dating, and when it got serious he asked me to choose him or the club. So I changed my lifestyle around and chose him. My issue is that I still want to have fun. I’m in college now and I told him I want to go out to clubs and parties (not strip clubs) and have fun.
When he was my age he did all of that, so why can’t I do the same thing. I know I’m in a relationship and I can control myself but why can’t I go out to college parties and clubs? What should I do?