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Strawberry Letter 23: What’s Really Going On?

I’ve been married for 15 years. My spouse has a best friend that is a female. I knew about this when we got married. I was okay with that because I have a lot of male friends. But now things are a little strange for me. He is now visiting her every other weekend (which is a 5 hour drive one way).

He has taken her to Canada and now would like to take her to Brazil. He didn’t ask me if I would like to go. I was a little upset about him asking her if she would like to go. I asked him why would he do that and not ask me. His reply was I do not have a passport and that she is paying her own way. His action is not of a man who love’s his spouse.

He feels because he is open with me about what his plans are, that it is okay to do this. I feel it is disrespectful to me. Shirley and Steve what is your take on this? Out of the 14 years we have been married he has never treated me this way.