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Strawberry Letter 23: Is He Playing Me?

Dear Shirley & Steve,

I would like to get some advice from the both of you on my situation. Of course, I want your valued opinion, Shirley. I would also like to hear what Steve thinks of the matter, as well. This is the problem.

I have been dating a man for almost a year and a half. Here is the problem: I have never been to his house, he always comes to my house. He will always turn off his phone when he comes to my house. He tries to be controlling , for example he likes to tell me how to raise my kids [and] how to dress.

Recently, I overheard a phone conversation, in which he was talking with the tax office about his house, and mentioned something about the “little lady.” To the best of my knowledge I thought he was divorced, I have check court records. This man and I have been came close, but I have always thought he was keeping something from me.

How do I bring this up, without making accusations? I just want to get to the bottom of this!!!

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