Strawberry Letter 23: Married And Divorced To A Serial Dater And I Can’t Move On.
Good morning Morning Crew,
I am a 27 year old who got caught up in a web of lies, deceit and I felt like I was an assistant in a Whodini act. My now ex husband turned out to be a serial dater. He had at least 17+ girlfriends that he met on a myriad of websites and other venues, 7 addition children that I did not know about and lived in a neighboring state to our home.
He used his military career as a means to maintain his extra relationships and as an excuse to be away from home for weeks maybe months at a time. Come to find out he was discharged from the military three months into our marriage and was lying to keep up his lies and deceit. Now I am in a new relationship with a great man and my perception of things won’t let me fully trust him.
I am afraid that I will lose him if I don’t stop checking his phone, his email, mail, whereabouts, friends location, in other words trying to become his shadow. He knows of my past relationship and is being very patient with me, but I fear he will grow tired of me because he has given me no reason to have to check up behind him like I do.
PLEASE HELP!!!! Jah THE SLOWLY RECOVERING HEART
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