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Strawberry Letter 23: Is it Possible to Be In Love With Two Men

Hello Steve and Shirley. I am a 24 year-old single mother of a beautiful 2 year-old little girl. I work and go to school at this time. I’m a great mother and a very caring woman. Me and my daughters dad have been separated for almost two years now and I am in a new relationship now. Me and my baby daddy get good sometimes but we have our disagreements sometimes too. My problem is that I still love him and I love my boyfriend.

I tell myself what’s wrong with me, he left me and my daughter twice. Then, I think about the good times we had. As for my boyfriend now, he has a 2 year-old son and he is a great father. He has his flaws though, he don’t have a drivers license, he has been evicted so he can’t get his own place, his car is always messed up, he has bad credit, and the list keeps going. But he loves me, he holds me, and he takes care of me. Well not too long ago my baby daddy came to me when me and boyfriend were having problems and said that he missed the way things used to be between me and him. That blew my mind.

I was gonna break-up with my boyfriend and go back to my baby daddy. When I told my boyfriend that I didn’t want to be with him, we worked things out. I don’t know what to do. It’s hard being around one man and thinking about another. Please HELP ME! I don’t know what to do.

Listen to Shirley Strawberry and Steve Harvey’s response below: