Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father and husband to the right woman, but that woman is not me. I have a very high sex drive and this guy can’t keep up, so I lost interest in him and we broke up. He still takes me out on very nice dates and he visits me and my family every week, in hopes that we can get back together. In the meantime, I met another guy and he is willing and able to fulfill my sexual needs, but that is about it..