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Subject: What Is Wrong With Me

Dear Steve and Shirley,

I am a married mother of two that had an affair with someone from my past two years ago. I love my husband but at times we have our ups and downs like any marriage. A few years ago I was contacted by an ex-boyfriend from my childhood. We were in constant contact for a few weeks and finally met up to see each other after all these years. Well we had an affair. We are both married and I cannot get this man out of my head no matter what I do. He broke it off with me because he knew that if we kept things going we would eventually get caught but I still have strong feelings for this man. We keep in touch once a month by texting or calling. I have tried not to contact him but then I will get a text or call from him just to say hi. He does not ask me for sex or to meet up with him so it’s just as catching up a bit. I was ready I was so ready to leave my husband if this man told me that he wanted me to he did not of course. Overtime it is gotten easier but I just cannot stop loving this man.  We had a very intense relationship for about six months. I know that we will never be the way we were and I just want to get this man out of my head. I will never confess to this it would destroy both of our families. I just wonder if this man ever felt anything for me other than lust. He has told me that he cares for me deeply and that is why he stepped back from things. I’m not sure if that is true or if you just wanted to end things with me either way I need closure somewhere. I want your take on this.

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