Subject: Young and tempted
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in a bit of a dilemma. I’ve been pretty cool with my co-worker for about two years and she’s told me about some of the kinks in her relationship with her fiancé. Last year, her fiancé started working with us. When he and I met, we automatically vibed and became close on a friendly level. We got so cool, that we called each other brother and sister. Initially, we texted each other and talked on the phone. I feel closer to him than to her and I’ve known her longer. We kept it friendly and platonic. I never looked at him sexually. But recently, things have changed. We ended up talking more and more and got too comfortable. He began to drop little subtle hints and reluctantly, I went with it. He has always said that he gets “hall passes” to sleep with other people when she feels it’s necessary. So now he’s stated that he would like to use one of his hall passes with me. I can’t put all the blame on him because I’ve entertained the idea. Before I knew it, I was telling him about all of my sexual desires for him. When we’re together at work, it’s like electricity between us. If he looks at me, it’s like fire burning into my soul. I’m addicted to the thrill. But what makes it difficult, is seeing his fiancé at work. I always feel so guilty. I don’t want to disrespect her or their relationship, but I am open to sleeping with him whenever he’s allowed a hall pass. I’m not looking for a relationship. I’m not looking to break them up at all. This is the kind of no-strings-attached situation I’ve been looking for. I don’t know what to do at this point. Should I wait for his “hall pass” or stop this now?
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