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Subject: I’m hurt, but I cannot hurt them

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38 year old man that is deeply in love with my wife and family. My wife and I have been married for 10 years and after our 3rd year of marriage, we separated because I just couldn’t get it right. After a month  of being away, she finally let me come back. We put the past in the past and our marriage has been great. Well, last year our son started school so I took him to all his check-ups to get him prepared for his first day of kindergarten. My family always thought that he wasn’t mine because she got pregnant almost 2 months after I returned. So during my son’s doctor’s appointment, I slid into the DNA testing place to get the test done. Needless to say, my boy isn’t mine. I’m hurt, but this happened when we were not together. I’m wondering if I should tell my wife that I went behind her back and did this, or should I take my secret to the grave?  I love MY son and even though I know the truth, he is still mine. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, nor my wife’s. They both love me with all their hearts and I don’t want to destroy that nor my marriage. I went looking and got burned. What to do, what to do, what to do?

Signed, confused.

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