Subject: I don’t think my husband likes cookies
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 50 years old and I got re-married 2 years ago. I read your book about the three things men need, and that the “cookie” was one of the three things. My question is, what if my husband doesn’t want or like the cookie? We have been fighting about this for years and before we were married, he would tell me that due to his religion, it bothered him. He said that after we got married, it would get better. Dummy me, I bought it! Well, it didn’t get better, it got worse. By our first 6 months of marriage, he had only had the cookie 5 or 6 times. I started to blame myself, but he said he was the same way in his previous marriage, but he blamed it on her because she was mean. Well, now I’m mean too! I tried to initiate a few times by starting with a passionate kiss, but he always pulled away and started laughing. If he sees me without clothes on, he lowers his head and runs out of the room. I left him 6 weeks ago, and honestly have not cried once or wished I was strong enough to stay. So, what should I do if the my husband does not want the Cookie, but I want him to have it…?
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