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Subject: He left me because he wants children

Dear Steve & Shirley, I’m a 38 year old woman, single with no kids, great career and well educated.  I was dating a 36 year old man that made me so happy and treated me wonderful. He also has great skills in working, he’s well educated and also has one child. We planned many things from getting married to having children. He always showed me his love and affection for and me and I did show mine also.  I got really sick and he was at every appointment. Then we learned that I had to have surgery that lead to me not being able to have any babies. When the Dr. said the reason for everything, he sat next to me really quiet, in shock. Leaving the hospital, he said nothing and then later on, he stop taking my calls altogether. So I had the surgery and went thru it without him. When I got well, I emailed him and wrote, “I know you want kids and we can’t have them together.” I left my phone number in case he got rid of it. So after 3 months, he gave me a call and he sounded sad. Flash Forward several years and he wants to start a relationship after I had to cry many nights over this man. I was willing to share my life with, but I’m scared to let him back into my heart because he may walk out of my life again when I need his support. I can’t lie, I still love this man. What should I do?

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