Why marry me?
Good morning Family, I have known my husband for over 23 years. When we first met we hit it off immediately and found ourselves in a wonderful relationship. After years of dating I asked him where he saw our relationship going and his answer was ”I don’t know”. I knew then that I was ready to to move from a fun relationship into one that offered me a future. I didnt want to be married right away, however I did need to know that this was a long term plan. He would not committ so I moved on. I married a great man had two children. My husband and I divorced after 20 years of marriage. I wont go into why just that we both agreed it was time. I reconnected with my ex (that I continued a friendship with) and found myself in a wonderful relationship. We talked about everything, he asked me to marry him every single day. We were so happy, at least I thought ”we” were. He stopped having sex with me while we were planning our wedding. I just thought we were too busy and that we were going to have a wonderful wedding night. To my suprise my now husband decided that he didnt want me to continue to live in his house,( he had the house when we got back together) and that I should move out. He said that he hasn’t been with anyone else however I find this hard to believe. We havent had sex since 3 months prior to our wedding night and the only reason he can give me for the bring up is that I have male friends and that he thought I would stop communication with them when we married. I did say that I would, however he works a job where his exes work with him everyday and I trust him. My male friends are just friends that I have Never been intimate with. Why would he marry me if he knew he could not handle this? He felt this way when we were saying our vows. This is a terrible nightmare that I cant seem to wake up from. Help!
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