Strawberry Letter: Triangle of Frustration

Source: unknown / Steve Harvey Nation

Subject: Triangle of Frustration

Dear Steve and Shirley,

For the last few years I have been caught in the middle of a very odd triangle with two of my very best friends. They are both perfect specimens of men. On the one hand I have the single father with two jobs who spends his time raising his daughter, bettering himself and helping everybody around him. On the other you have the military man who helps everybody is as sweet as pie and just as caring. I dated each of them at differing points in  highschool but life experiences took us separate ways. We still remain the best of friends and they know about my relationship with he both of them. Each has professed their love for me and told me that they can see us spending the rest of our live together (my self and each of the respectively) the problem is the single dad doesn’t want us together cause he is afraid of hurting me and ruining the friendship,  and the navy man is afraid that we have changed too much to work now even  though we know we wold fit together. This leaves me in the middle  and deeply in love with two men. I am so confused at how I can find 2 good men when most women can’t find one and yet I can’t fully grasp either!

Please help, Angel in love

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