Subject: I Want The Ex To Be X
Dear Shirley and Steve,
I have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 2 years. We have had some bumps in our relationship, just like any other normal relationship. I’m just so confused and noticing little things about him. Just recently his grandmother passed and I noticed his (first love) ex girlfriend (whose name is still tatted on his chest) was there at the funeral. That wasn’t the problem, I understand that she wanted to pay her respect to a woman that she knew and show the family support during their time of needs. After the funeral, she went to his grandmother house along with his brother’s ex. My husband wanted to go to his grandmother’s home in the beginning but quickly changed his mind. I received a call from my sister-in-law informing me that they were there waiting on my husband. I notice weeks prior to his grandmother passing that he would wear a ring that she gave him when they were dating. I would get mad and ask him why is he still wearing that ring and he needs to get rid of it. Even during the funeral he kept his left hand in his pocket (hiding his ring at least to me). I was angry at him for hiding the fact that he knew she was there and that is the reason he changed his mind on going there so quickly. So many things are running through my head. Is he hiding his marriage from her? Does he still have feelings for her? Please help because I’m just lost for words and it is bothering me so much.
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