Strawberry Letter 23: Is He Bi Polar
Greetings Steve and Shirley. I am a 43 year old professional woman. I am involved with a man that will be 50 next month, and he is driving me crazy for real. He has serious trust issues. My job allows me to be out and meet people. I am in sales (no not that kind Steve and Tommy). Anyway, he is always accusing me of doing wrong. We have been together for almost 5 years now, and I have NEVER cheated on him. I have lied but not cheated. My lies concern the Internet. But now he is acting all crazy. He wants keys to my house, my car and he wants to search my cell, he has called people back.
At one time we did exchange keys. That was before all the madness. Now I have mine, he has his. But he wants mine back and doesn’t want me to have his. I don’t care. I don’t need his. He treats me like I have actually done these things that he gets in his crazy head. He calls me at 3am to ask me is there something I need to tell him or he has a dream about me and a guy then calls me to tell me to enjoy my life with this person in his dream, that of course I never met. I could go on. There is so much more to this crazy relationship. I just know that this is getting played out and I am tired!!! I love him but this is too damn much!! This is my 2nd time writing to you and you guys never responded to the first letter!!!
Listen to Steve’s response here.
