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Strawberry Letter: You Haven’t Been Around All This Time, Don’t Come Now

Good morning Steve and Shirley,

I’m a 26 year old mother with a 4 year old soon be 5. I left his father when I was 7 months pregnant because by then I had truly realized that he wasn’t worth my time. We were together for three years before we had our son. We had our share of problems but I was young and stupid and thought that he truly loved me.

But anyhow I had my son 8 weeks early and that’s when more drama began. He began to say that my son wasn’t his because I had him so early. He hasn’t seen my son since he was 6 weeks old. He just refuses to see him without a DNA test. Well I have made several attempts to get the test done over the years but he wants me to pay for it. I never took him to child support because I didn’t want to deal with that stress. I have never asked him for anything when it has come to my baby.

Well within the past year I have gotten married and I’m expecting my second child in September. My husband wants to adopt my son but his sperm donor doesn’t want to sign over his rights. What should I do? I haven’t seen this man in over four years. But now he wants to come back around. I’m really stressing and I don’t know what to do.

Help.

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