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Strawberry Letter 23: Husband Sexually Harassing On The Job

Good Morning Steve and Ms. Strawberry

I don’t know if you gonna read my letter… but here it goes… My husband which I am now separated from.. is sexually harassing the young ladies on his job… He is the Store Manager and then he hires young ladies that are 18-22yrs old… He likes to work with all the girls. This is the third job that I had received a letter from the courts saying sexual harassment.. He got terminated from the last two jobs.. and said it was for something else… being a wife and wants to be supportive.. I believed him at first, but when I saw the 2nd letter, from a different employer, I knew then it ain’t right.

Before I packed all my bags.. I decided to go to his job at the time when his shift ends.. and lo and behold, there he was with a young lady.. 22yrs to 23yrs.. both got in his car and drove off.. I followed him and he saw me, he began to drive like a maniac.. I confronted him when he got home.. he said he was giving her a ride home, cause she has no car and it was late.. since I had a problem with it he will not do it anymore.. I reminded him about the previous sexual harassment.

Steve, I know the day will come when he will get terminated again.. then I have to hold the fort down.. so I began my packing.. before I exited.. I did another visit to his job.. 10pm.. lo and behold… there he was with the same young lady.. both of them got in his car and left… I did not do any confrontation that night.. I packed all my stuff and left cause he brings me down with him, every time he gets terminated.. like he don’t care to keep his job.. especially in this hard time.

Just last week Steve.. He got terminated form the third job… called me and said its was because of something else.. Steve he was having his fun.. had his cake and ate it too.. did not know I existed.. when times was good… I did not see him at all..when we was living together.. I always helped him back up but he turns around and screw it up.. bring me down with him.. So this time.. I am not willing to help at all.. what for? He treated me like trash.. and now he needs my help.. I feel a little sad for him.. but he wants me to help so mad.

Do you think I should leave the past in the past and help him out? Doesn’t he still need to pay his child support? It’s his fault he got terminated? Why should I feel sorry for him?