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Strawberry Letter 23: Trying Not To Lose My Cool

Dear Steve,

My wife and I recently got married and I am one that loves my wife to the tee. I’m always going out of my way for my wife and whatever she wants she gets. We dated for 5 years and in those 5 years I have always been faithful to my wife.

Now ever since last week she was online saw a guy which was her first love and they were best friends and they were separated when they were in middle school. Now for the past week or so from the time she wakes up til the time she goes to bed they text all day long and one night they just all of a sudden were talking for 6 hours straight. I was up the entire time listening to the conversation and they didn’t get off the phone until 6 a.m. It hurts because she’s telling me one thing but I just happen to look through her phone and read the text messages.

Not only that she has a picture of his private part in her phone so she sent him pictures of her private area. It’s killing me because I was reading and she was telling him where she said while I was laying next to her and she was thinking about him. My wife gets whatever she wants from me and what hurts so bad is I gave her my virginity and now my whole life is being messed up and I feel like I’m being replaced.

I love her, I love her family and I mean her entire family, even her 84 year old great grandmother. We have built such a strong foundation. When no one else would be there for her I am and have always been there for her and now it seems like it’s forget you and I am trying not lose my religion because I have been preaching since I was 16years old.

A man that loves his wife, who cherishes her, I gave all of my love and everything my entire life. I am thinking about getting a divorce. Help me.

Godly Man

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