Subject: What Should I Say?
Steve and Shirley, I am currently dating a young man whom I happen to think the world of. The problem is; he is not ready to be in a committed relationship and I am. I truly feel that he is the one. However, I don’t think or should I say I know I’m not receiving what I’m giving. Although, he tells me that he is not dating anyone else he says that he has friends. (Now we all have friends, but lets keep it real)When I ask him is he sexually involved with anyone he says no… I am not insecure, nor am I a jealous person. But… I am a single mother of two (with 1 father), and at the age of 30 I can’t continue to sit around and wait for him to decide if we’re going to move forward together. I don’t think that it’s appropriate, I mean correct me if I’m wrong Steve, men know if they want to be in a relationship or not, and the only reason they say I’m not sure if I want to be in a committed relationship is when they are still out there. Right? Let me also add that I am not talking about marriage, but I would like to grow with him and think of that in the future. I would like to know if I’m asking to much for him to be dedicated. I know women often times work off of their emotions so I try to keep that in mind. I do understand that patience is a virtue, but I do not want to be stupid either. So as a result of his indecisiveness I have decided to start dating other men, in search of what he is not fulfilling. Should I tell him, or should I no
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