Subject: How To Get The Man I Love Back
Good day Steve and Shirley,
I am in need of some advice on what I should do. I always knew that I was created to be a wife and a mother. I made it my mission in life to be a great mom to my babies they are my world but finding the right person to embark on the journey with is why I am in need some help. Every guy I was in a relationship with went through a checklist in my mind on if he could be the one. Here goes my story: the man I am deeply in love with I hurt him really bad. I met him when I was on a break from my child’s father because of his constant cheating. I was young and a single mom and he treated me like a queen. I fell madly in love with him and wanted to be with him I even planned to move with him to Washington, but I had my child’s father on the other hand wanting to be a family. Despite my feelings I went back to my child’s father to give my child the family I never had. I hurt the man I love so bad by doing this but he kind of understood why. Fast forward a couple of years I am now a mom of two and no longer with my kids father because I couldn’t live a lie anymore I told him I couldn’t take the cheating anymore and that I was in love with someone else. I tried to contact my love but he was still hurt and didn’t want to give me a chance in fear that I may hurt him again. I still confessed how I felt to him and pleaded with him because my heart yearned for him. My best friend saw my hurt and told me that the best thing I could do for him and myself was to give him time and space. So I did. To make a long story short I made up in my mind that as for me and my family we will serve the lord. I was so eager to be married and not live in sin anymore that I ended up marrying the first guy to really ask me to marry him. Despite of me not really loving him and not really knowing him (Stupid yeah I know that now.) He was very verbally abusive to me sometimes in front of my kids so he had to go. Now I am separated from my husband and seeking a divorce but I am worried about how me getting a divorce would affect my children as I do not want to taint them with my actions, but most of all I am worried about how this will affect my relationship with God? I have come to the conclusion that I cannot choose for myself and with that I am trying to give the wheel to God to choose for me, but I find myself thinking all about “him” the one that I let go, the one I really ever truly loved! Help me Steve please
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