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Subject: About To Kick Her Out

I am a 39-year-old man who feels like a fool for falling in love what amounts to 33-year-old moocher/bum with a 9-year-old child.

I have allowed my girlfriend to move in with me because she and her son were being kicked out of the house they were sharing with another mother and child because she could not find a job to pay her half of the rent. I had huge reservations about this when she initially asked to move in because I’d been through this kind of thing before, and I didn’t want to be stuck taking care of two people (one of which is a grown). But in the end I caved because I could not take the idea of him being homeless.

The day after she moved in, her car was repossessed. I tried to console her by letting her know that she’s better off not having a $500 car payment lingering over her head, and that we could work around whatever work schedule she would have to once she got a job.

Fast forward to 8 weeks later: she hardly ever gets out of bed, does not even try to look for work, hardly ever showers, eats constantly (and she will only eat fresh, organic, farm-raised, stress-free food…i.e. the most expensive items in the grocery store), refuses to clean up behind herself and her child, and runs the a/c constantly (living in the south during the summer is hot, but it’s not unbearable… and definitely not worthy of having the a/c set to 70 degrees 24/7).

We are no longer having sex. Actually, we haven’t had sex since two weeks prior to her moving in. To be honest, I have lost my attraction to her because she is not making it a priority to get off her butt, and pull it together. I told her in the beginning that if I ever reach a point where I no longer want to be sexual with her, she better start worrying.

I have talked to her constantly about these issues but she refuses to make concessions. I feel bad for the kid, but I want her OUT! I can feel myself getting more and more angry as the days go by and I am on the verge of exploding. Please give me some insight on how you, or others that you know have dealt with a situation like this.

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