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Subject: Marriage Is A Journey

DEAR STEVE HARVEY AND SHIRLEY,

I’VE BEEN WITH MY SPOUSE SINCE I WAS 16, WE GOT MARRIED WHEN I WAS 20.. MY SPOUSE IS 31.. MY ISSUE IS WHEN ME AND MY SPOUSE GOT TOGETHER EVERYTHING WAS ALWAYS ALL GOOD, WE WERE ALWAYS TOGETHER, IT WAS JUST PERFECT.. I GOT PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST CHILD 4 MONTHS AFTER WE STARTED DATING… HE HAS ALWAYS RESPECTED ME, MY HUSBAND WENT IN THE ARMY AFTER MY SONS FIRST BIRTHDAY, I WAS IN MY SENIOR YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL AND I LET PEOPLE TALK ME INTO CHEATING ON MY BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME.. HE DIDN’T FINISH BASIC TRAINING AND GOT OUT… WE GOT MARRIED IN 2006, I GOT MY FIRST FULL TIME JOB AT 21, IN 2007, MY HUSBAND WASN’T WORKING, SO I WAS LEFT TO TAKE CARE OF THE THREE OF US… SO WHEN I STARTED WORKING I MET THIS GUY THAT I STARTED TO LIKE AND I CHEATED AGAIN, WE HAD OUR SECOND CHILD IN 2009, AND I WAS STILL TAKING CARE OF THE FAMILY, MY HUSBAND STILL WASN’T REALLY WORKING.. I LEFT HIM 3 MONTHS AFTER MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN, CAUSE I WAS TIRED AND I FELT LIKE MY HUSBAND WASN’T TRYING DO ANY BETTER, AND HE DIDN’T WANNA TAKE CARE OF THE FAMILY… WE GOT BACK TOGETHER CAUSE A GUY I WAS TALKING TO DOGGED ME… IN 2010 I GOT MY SECOND FULL TIME JOB WHERE I STARTED MAKING MORE MONEY.. I WAS STILL PULLING THE WAIT FOR THE FAMILY… I CROSSED PATHS WITH ANOTHER GUY THAT I ENDED UP MESSING AROUND WITH… THE POINT OF MY LETTER IS FORM 2007-2010 I CHEATED A FEW TIMES WITH OTHER MEN BECAUSE I FELT THEY WERE OFFERING ME SOMETHING THAT MY HUSBAND WASNT, CAUSE THEY HAD A JOB AND HE DIDNT, HE WASNT DOING HIS PART AS A MAN.. IN 2012 I GOT TIRED AGAIN CAUSE MY HUSBAND JUST WANTED TO DO WHAT HE WANTED TO DO, I GOT HIM A JOB WHERE I USED TO WORK AT, BUT HE JUST STILL WASNT DOING HIS PART AS A MAN OR A HUSBAND.. MY HUSBAND MOVED ON AND STARTED TALKING TO SOMEBODY ELSE TWO WEEKS AFTER I LEFT.. AFTER TWO MONTHS OF BEING SEPARATED I DECIDED I WANTED MY HUSBAND BACK, AND HE JUST STRAIGHT GAVE ME HIS BUTT TO KISS… I CHASED HIM FOR THREE MONTHS WHILE HE JUST IGNORED ME, KEPT TALKING TO GIRLS ETC… HE FINALLY AGREED TO MOVE BACK IN WITH ME, BUT HE LATER ADMITTED THAT HE ONLY GOT BACK WITH ME AND MOVED IN WITH ME BECAUSE I WOULDNT LEAVE HIM ALONE… HERE WE ARE TODAY, AND MY HUSBAND SAYS HE WANTS ME AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH ME, BUT AT TIMES HE TREATS ME LIKE NOTHING, HE CALLS ME NAMES, TALKS TO ME ANY KIND OF WAY, PUTS ME DOWN, TELLS ME HOW MUCH HES TIRED OF THIS MARRIAGE, AND ME, HOW HE DOESNT CARE ETC.. BECAUSE OF EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE DONE I REALIZED THAT NONE OF IT WAS WORTH IT, AND I BEAT MYSELF UP ABOUT IT, SO BECAUSE OF IT I HAVE TRUST ISSUES… I ALWAYS QUESTION MY HUSBAND ABOUT HIS WHEREABOUTS, HIS MONEY ETC… I HATE THE FACT THAT HE HAS ALL THESE FEMALE FRIENDS, OR HE WOULD RATHER SPEND TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS OVA ME… HE DOESNT CARE HOW I FEEL ABOUT ANY OF THE THINGS HE DOES… HE STAYS OUT UNTIL 2,3, AND 4 IN THE ,MORNING… WE ARE LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS… WE WERE  SUPPOSED TO GET A PLACE WHEN HE GOT HIS INCOME TAXES, AND ALL HE HAS DONE IS SPEND THE MONEY… ITS JUST SO MUCH.. HE DOWNS ME CAUSE I REALLY DONT HAVE FRIENDS, AND I PREFER NOT TO HAVE MALE FRIENDS.. I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH MORE OF THE DISRESPECT, THE INSULTS, OR THE SELFISHNESS I CAN TAKE… WHATS A WOMAN TO DO???

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