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Strawberry Letter: Am I Wrong If I’m With My Ex-Boyfriend’s Best Friend

Dear Steve & Shirley,

I am a 30-year-old female that is with my ex boyfriends best friend. Let me explain. My ex boyfriend and I have been apart for 7 years. Recently, I and his best friend reunited through Facebook. We went to dinner about a month ago and since then we have been intimate on several occasions. He says that he has always been attracted to me. He has told me that he could see himself with me and that he really likes me but is unsure of how to approach this with his friend. We both agree that neither one of us are ready for the emotional and mental distress that could accompany us if we come out publicly with our relationship. The crazy thing is, back in our college days he expressed his interest in me before his friend did but I turned him down. Now that I know more about him on a different level, we have a lot of things in common. I am very attracted to his ambition, the fact that he is a great father to his child (he’s a single father and his child lives with him), and he’s a responsible adult. I could see myself with him, but I am so scared to proceed with this relationship because I don’t want anyone to get hurt. Steve & Shirley are we wrong for “going there”? Should we go for it or stop it now while no one knows about it but us? And how should we go about exposing our relationship? In desperate need of some guidance!

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