Strawberry Letter: Why Me? Who Do This Man Feel Like I am His Walking Doormat?
Good morning crew.
My name is Tammy. I met a man named Jimmy in 2002. When we first met I had a friend and he had a girlfriend. We dated for eight months. He was at the house every night so I just thought maybe he told me this because he didn’t want a girlfriend. So one day he picked me up from work and told me he was due to get married in three days. We went on with our lives. I met someone, had kids by him. I have six kids in total and he has one.
So over the years we hooked back up again and we have been seeing each other for three years. He has met my kids. He came to my oldest daughter’s graduation, prom party, and even came with me to drop her off to school last summer. He even moved her back home for me from school. Anything I asked from this man he did. Yes, I felt that there was somebody else in the picture because he could never stay over. He would always say, “I have my son and I am not ready to bring him around any one else.” He made me feel like I was the problem because I was down his back all the time.
So one day I was on Facebook and I saw a picture of him and his soon to be wife. I asked him about the picture and of course I was the crazy one. So I called her and told her everything. I found out that they are due to get married in six weeks. Now my house is in a mess. When I hurt, my kids hurt. I am trying to put back the pieces to my life. I have one child in college and I am in college. His life is going on even though he came in and left like a storm. I don’t know why I have such bad luck with me. I work, go to school, and take care of my kids. I just need help finding my way through this so I can keep my head up and keep going. I know I have to forgive him so I can move on but, it is so hard.
Can you please help me?
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