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Strawberry Letter 23: Should I Marry For Stability Or Good Sex?

To Shirley, Steve and Tommy,

Love your show listen every morning, on my way to work. I am a successful 29 year female, who is in love with two guys. I have been dating them both for about two years, recently they proposed and I have until April 18. I am ready to settle down, move to burbs, be faithful to one person and have some kids. The problem is who will I build my life with sex or stability?

The first guy is unemployed or a jack of all trades … Ten years my senior.. Two kids with a crazy ex wife who has finally disappeared … Doesn’t have a working car …. But the sex is great between us, he knows where and how to work both hands …. We can only see each other about twice a week due to our schedules…love him and he is an animal.. The second guy has a great job …. Share the same values, same age, no kids, no crazy ex wife, and wants the same things …. But the bedroom is terrible …. He doesn’t know how to work anything ….love him as my best friend… Is sex the foundation of a relationship ??? Does sex die ??

Please help….